Is it illegal to kick a 17 yr old step son out on his a$$ to to learn a lesson
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My parents were kicking me out when I was like 15 and the only thing I was doing wrong was doing drugs. Its only Illegal if he reports it lmfao I didnt care enough to I just got a job and an apartment but it will screw up his life dont expect him to go to college or anything Im still surprised I graduated high school the only thing he will have is street smarts. And why do ppl blame attitudes on drugs Ive done everything under the son and I have always been a laid back person If I got mad at someone they had it coming.
Yeah, time for boot camp.
An interesting but usually true concept: A child's personality usually reflects that of the parent.
Pushing against your son will only make him push back, so be a father and turn your house around. It sounds like an unhappy place to live for both you honestly.
An interesting but usually true concept: A child's personality usually reflects that of the parent.
Pushing against your son will only make him push back, so be a father and turn your house around. It sounds like an unhappy place to live for both you honestly.
he is 17 & im not sure about your state but in n.c. he is legal. if he is legal in your state go ahead and beat his ass a few good times and let him see what its like to step into a mans world.
there has to be a reason he is acting like that though,one day when you guys are alone pull him aside and ask him whats up his ass.dont get mad though because he will say something smart as an answer.ask him whats his problem with you and dont be offended by it . ask him to just choll out a little bit and make him go to school even if cops escort him.and if that doesnt work whoop his ass,but talk to him first
depending on where you live you can kick them out at 16. in ontario you can get a court ruling to kick them out at a minimum of 16.
His mom doesn't help the situation much, Dad died of a heart attack in front of him about 5yrs ago. He says he 's pissed about his dad's passing every time he's pissed. His mom just asking about his day can set him off. personally I think he is using, something odd for a teen to sleep nearly 20 hrs straight only to get up to take a leak after coming home at like 6am from a friends house. His friends are the ones cops look to first when something is stolen. but even before the adderal he was moody, think his staying awake for more than 20 hrs has more to do with his mood. He hates me standing at the door to a room when him and his mom get into it. The biggest mistake was getting him into boxing to try and help him with anger issues. Now it sems he goes and looks for fights all the time when ppl piss him off.
I know it's no easy for some guy to be a father figure to an adolescent, sure I made mistakes. I tryed to be understanding and try to help him when I could. But you have tools left in the front yard a half million dozen times (losing most of them) and stuff disappearing from the household when you know his friends are noted theives by the local pd. His medication having disappeared once out of his room. You kinda start losing respect for the kid especially when You watch him take change out of your truck and you ask him what's he doing. He repleys nothing. Didn't even asked just took!!
MAN! if i even tried to do any of that stuff my dad would beat me (age not being a concern to him) thats just plain disrespect and he needs a good bloody nose or a broken jaw to set him in his place. the next time he goes off walk up to him and if he says somthin ya dont like right in the mouth with a fist and see what he says after that. if he still goes of go for the nose. and if he can stilll talk after that hit em in the mouth again and the kick him in the balls and walk away. gotta make it worth your while ya know lol
I think this is getting out of hand guys. I am pretty sure that he just wanted to vent. A couple of jokes were alright to lighten the mood, but we don't need to tell him he should beat his step-son, just my two sense.
lollll??? sounds like u have some bad experiences lolllll.
i think from readinn what you wrote i think that hes just acting outright cause he is a teenage boy and thats how it is. and it all starts with how the kid is raised when he was younger. he prolly is using.. go to your local drug store(a big one) they should have home drug tests you can get. tell him he needs to piss in it. if he doesnt want to then you talk to like the local police to find out what you can do.
the problem with boot camps is they cost money. my mom was gonna try to send me to one. military school would do it. or maybe if he is on drugs a rehab? anyway you see it he needs help.. also the scared straight idea is a joke. been there done that didnt really enlighten me at all..
he could be depressed from his father passing. you never know. or he could just not like you cause he feels your trying to be his father. but you need to explain to him. look dude im not here for you! im here for your mother she needs the help around here and i dont see you doing nuthing about it except stealing from my damn truck! talk to him man.... good luck hope i helped a little. oh wait and the kicking out thing it will work. it worked for me. was out for 3 days i called momma and step dad saying please let me back i would do anything. now everytime we get into my mom turns around and goes i would watch it if i were you. you wanna be out again.. lol let it be known but dont just threaten do it!
o and to the soap in a sock LMFAO i used it a couple times when little gangster thugs need a beatin!!! lol.
Personaly I'm not a violent person, But He has got me to strike things in anger. Violence rarly solves much, other than I can beat you up. Which proves What?? Noo not bag of tea as some might say. But he does need respect in the fact of nothing can be taken for granted, living in anger rarely gets you much except more anger.
he needs a brooklyn beat down lol! but no one good punch to let him know your serious will work TRUST ME!!! or just take all his stuff out of his drawers and throw it on the front lawn and tell him to GET OUT!
Oh he knows I'd like to hit him at the times he has got my dander up, But he's smart enough that He doesn't want to throw the first punch. pesonally I know he has a wicked swing and that was with boxing gloves on. I have talked to him on several occasions, but some where I pissed him off, maybe the threat if I see one of his friends digging in a bagy to stuff a dam pipe in the livingroom again I'm calling the pd. I don't need that in my house. I don't fricken care if he uses as long as it doesn't happen in the dam house with his brother in the room. Kids seem brain dead these days.
Well, I grew up without my dad at all and absolutely no father figure. A step dad for a long time, but I hated him like probably the way he feels about you. He's 17 and soon he will be a man, maybe you should help him get into work for some money. Teach him how to save money and invest it into an apartment or something to get high in. Throw him out will put him in a hole and give him a really tough time out on the streets 24/7. Help him and teach him the best for his own good in the future, if he ignores then let him be another hobbo in a tunnel.
He has had a job, We even set up an account for him. Tried to tell him leave like 20 or 30 bucks in it from each pay. Nope He had to take every dollar out, just left his change from his check in it. But he had to have me or his mom sign to get it, I rarely went with him to get his money. Must of been to much of a hard ass about saving. But if you want to buy a car from an ad or a quad or what ever, He had no money to speak of always expected mom to fork the money over (I'll do this or that) for now money. He needs to live out in the real world. You don't get payed till the work is done then you need to pay bills, then whats left you live off of. The plus is he does like roman noodles.
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