so, let me start my vent/scenario, I've been married pretty long together 10years married for 9. I got married young obviously as I'm only 29 lol. but at this point, I feel different when the wife pisses me off. I don't know exactly why. but we're in the process of trying to purchase our 1st home and NOW of all times, I'm more prone to wanting to hit her or bail... dunno why, I couldn't say, she just pisses me off and that's pretty much my thoughts. I don't hit her and haven't but the thought is still there. she sometimes reads this so she may find this but if she does, it's her damm fault for trying to spy on every god damm thing I do and I about feel like hitting her for that fact too. if I'm gonna do something wrong, I'm gonna do it while she's lookin or not. so to me it's just annoying as hell. on top of just everything else. I feel smothered and friggen drives me nuts. I dunno. we do have another kid now and another on the way. but I just don't know sometimes I just am getting WAAAAY to pissed and the best option is to leave but I can't just up and leave unless it's a permanent thing. eh, just sometimes I get so mad I definitely am not willing to make things better at that point...