When you say this Friday, do you mean a few days ago? Any news?
I have my religious views and I believe that everything is as God has planned. Who are we to argue with him? I'll pray for your wife and your family. You have the support of a very large community that stands behind your family.
I'm afraid that I'm not in a position to be able to offer any financial help, but if you need anything and I am even remotely capable of helping, I will.