250r rear shock :)

how much do you weigh? ive heard the 250r is better for lighter guys and the 400ex (which is what i have) is better for bigger guys, but i hears ya both are worlds better than stock. I:I
 
my 250r shock seeems ok to me, i can tell the difference just sitting on the bike between my 250r and the stocker. my really short riding that i've gotten to do i need to get my works fronts ready to go because the rear is way better than the front. btw i weigh around 220
 
i have a trx 450r on my bike, "dreamy", but have a trx 250r for my sons, seems and looks like it has way more travel too???
but sits too high for my liking, i'm workin on fixin that, gonna get another shock mount welded on, i couldnt see enuf meat left on the shocks mount for re-drilling it