metal in oil

well i just drained it again today and it still had alot of metal on it i took some pictures on my phone just dont know how to upload on my computer
 
Well that aint good!

May be for nothing but atleast youll have peace of mind but id split the cases and see whats going on if the clutch checks out.
 
welll the problem is with that is i dont have the time nor the money to do that and that might be why it jumps out of first gear

Yup yup Probably

keep in mind the stuff it takes to find out is cheaper than an engine.

Id split the cases and have a spare trans and clutch in hand.I keep both on the shelf for such ocassions.