Patrick, as you know I have a Son of your age.
I see my job as a Father is to nurture, advise, support and love him for what he is!
There are things that he does and things that he contemplates doing that I do not condone, but I do not stand in his way if he chooses to follow that direction.
Yes I may worry about the direction that he may be taking, but if that is what he chooses to do, I see my position as a loving Father as to support him.
Choose carefully so as to create the least impact on your loved ones!
Even you may love your Mom immensely, the final decision must be yours, you are investing in your future, it is up to you to choose what happens in Patrick's life.
Being hard on you again Lad, methinks it is time to let go of the apron strings.
I hope I have not offended you in anyway, but as you know I usually call it as it is.